My husband and I just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary. I thought we were going to do what we do most years - meaning we would not go out on our actual anniversary because we got married on Lag BaOmer. On Lag BaOmer, we are usually at someone else’s wedding, which is okay because it’s a nice way to relive our wedding on our exact anniversary without having to pay for the expenses of a band, flowers, and catering for a crowd. It’s a big celebration, often with many of our friends and/or family in attendance, with someone else footing the bill. Not bad at all. But this year, in a rare occurrence, we weren’t invited to a wedding.