Delay The Wedding?
The Mishnah states that the mother of the Kohen Gadol would bring gifts of food and clothing to the accidental killers who were forced to run to the Cities of Refuge. She did so in order to dissuade them from praying that her son should die (since the accidental killers are released from the city upon the death of her son). The Gemara infers that if the killers would pray that the Kohen Gadol die, then the Kohen Gadol indeed would be in danger of dying because such a prayer is not considered a kil’las chinam – a curse uttered in vain, which cannot take effect, as the Kohen Gadol does carry some responsibility for the accidental killing, since he should have prayed for the well-being of the people of his generation.
