Small Act, Great Impact
I’d like to share with you an incredible story that was told to me firsthand by Malkie*. Sometime last Elul, Malkie received a phone call from a friend telling her about a kallah in the neighborhood who was due to get married the following week. The kallah had absolutely no money to buy even the most basic essentials to start off her marriage. She couldn’t even afford a pair of socks. The chosson came from a complicated background and was likewise unable to contribute to setting up their home. The couple was in desperate need of help, and with one week to go, there was no time to lose. Malkie considered posting a request for donations to the local n’shei (a group of women who join together with the goal of helping members of the community in matters big and small), but decided against it. With all the help that the women constantly provided for each other, nobody ever asked for money. That would be opening up a Pandora’s box that would never close. Even though Malkie chose not to ask for funds, something niggled at the back of her mind and wouldn’t let her rest. She really felt badly for the kallah and realized that Hashem had arranged for her to come upon this information for a reason. She had to try to help her.
