Halachic Highlights

Question: Is it ever permitted for a child to say the name of his parent?

Short Answer: Even though some do not allow a child to mention his parent’s name after a preface such as “my father, so and so,” many poskim allow a child to say his parent’s name with such a preface or even without a preface for purely identification purposes.

Question: Should one recite a b’rachah on the mitzvah of kibud av v’eim? If no, why not?

Short Answer: No brachah is recited on the mitzvah of kibud av v’eim. Multiple reasons are provided for this omission.

Short Answer: Most poskim rule that a child cannot disagree or contradict a parent, regardless of whether the discussion is about Torah/halachah or other topics. However, there is room to be lenient if the child disagrees with the parent (i) not in the parent’s presence, (ii) with the parent’s permission, or (iii) in a questioning manner instead of a disagreeing or objecting manner.

Question: May the Sheva Brachos be recited through a microphone?

Short Answer: Many poskim rule that Sheva Brachos should not be recited through a microphone. However, there is a minority of poskim who allow it, and many people appear to follow this view.

Question: May a child sit in a parent’s seat in shul?

Short Answer: A child is prohibited from sitting in a parent’s seat in shul unless the parent has switched seats and no longer sits in this seat or unless the parent doesn’t mind.

Question: Should the last names of the chasan, kallah, and witnesses be written on the kesubah?

 Short Answer: Although Rav Moshe Feinstein zt”l, Rav Yosef Shalom Elyashiv zt”l, and Rav Yosef Dov Soloveitchik zt”l all thought it preferable to include the last names on the kesubah, the prevalent custom is not to include last names.